Monday, June 8, 2015

Girl

She is a wonderful creation by God. She is her father's angel, someone's sister or mother. She is funny, ambitious and wants to rule this world. All these years I have been observing girls around and would like to share my observance with you all. I am not commenting or criticizing females here.

A girl loves rising and winning. I am saying this because from the KG classes I have been observing that mostly toppers are females. Thanks to a few bright students unlike me who were toppers otherwise I would have started believing that only females can study well :p With that being said, I would like to jot down a few things that really shock and make me think "what?, why is the matter with her?"

Like I said, I have seen females winning and have seen the joy in their eyes after winning but isn't loosing a part of life as well. I am not saying guys don't loose but for some reason I do not know why and girls are unable to accept loosing. At many instances I see them jealous of each other just because they want to prove themselves "the best".

Coming to the way they act, as per my experience I have seen very few females who are happy to see their friends doing well. I mean they of course like it but deep inside as I have been observing and told, She wishes that she was the winner.

She wants to try every single things before she leaves this world which is great but that does not mean she should loose control over herself, taking an example of alcohol. I saw many of my friends drinking because they just wanted to prove that if boys can do it, so can we! Now, this might be a little shocking but I have literally heard them say, I do not have a partner. Everyone around is in a relationship, is something wrong with my looks? Here's the biggest problem. They like to change seeing others but I do not see them giving it a pause and thinking, is the step I am going to take actually good or bad. They just want to try and do most of the things because they see others doing it.

A girl wants to be treated like a boy and wishes to have same rights but when a guy acts the way he is (without faking) the girl says "is that the way to treat or talk to a girl?" and if she is not provided with an opportunity a guy is provided with she says "why cant I do it?"

One, you say "treat me in a different manner" two you say "We are equal". Are girls really unable to identify what they really want or would like to be treated? I am not against them but a couple of instances made me feel they themselves are not clear about what they want!

Coming to looking at other girls, It is normally observed that when she sees female in a relationship, she wants to have someone too. She sees someone dressed up in a dress that would attract males, she wants to wear it just because she can get attention. Please girls... know what you should be doing and not what you feel you can do.... Human being can do anything with his powerful "mind" it's just how you use it....